yeah i believe also some people are virgin not because they want to maintain it that way but because lack of luck to have done it with any one. quite humiliating though. anyways, i believe that it is very important. i would be happy to end up with someone and we both still our first to do it.

but i guess for me, if it is not possible to meet someone like that then i will just accept the person's past than to remain single or uncommitted the whole time.

I know where I live it really doesn't matter to a lot of the people. But for me personally, it means a lot. I think people should wait until they find the right person, if not then how does their husband or wife, know for sure that they will stay true to them if they have already given their own virginity away so freely.

I'm going to stay a virgin until I'm married. Well that's the plan.

It does mean a lot to me and I'll keep it until I'm married. On another note sex is so common that it might accidentally happen.

in social life for asian women,virginity is very important. we can't live together before marriage.

Well i think people who have virginity after marriage should be left alone.
People who have virginity when they die should be left alone aswell.

Virginity means absolutely nothing in my eyes - purity my rear end! I mean come on - does it really matter if anyone uh - "stuck the meat" - as long as it was done safely and thought out?

Come on world - we aren't in the medieval age.

-- Q

virginity is a gift from god, but sometimes they lose their virginity not just because having sex. for me virginity it's not very important.

How is virginity a gift from God? If anything it is a holdback.

-- Q

Using god for something's explanation is escapism. I mean why god will give such a gift ? it is not so hi-fi as people portray it. it is simple concept but overhyped.

I personally think it is rediculously over-rated.

As long as you and your mate are maturly ready then there's nothing wrong. It's when someone boats about it and abuses it when they'll soon become negated and demeaned towards.

Yeah that's right it is over hyped. I mean adding religious touch to virginity and then adding more emotional viewpoint simply hypes virginity.

Yes, it is as a matter of fact. Save it for the one you love most.

It's not really an issue here. No one cares if you are or not... but the guys give you more respect if you've lost your virginity. =\

Why is it so special that you must wait? I've never understood why some feel comfortable giving uh - BJs and the like but are afraid to ****. It is just silly - if you are going to act sexual you may as well finish it through.

-- Q

If you think your ready, then go ahead and lose it. I don't mind if a girl is a virgin or not. If they are it's a plus to me though, but if they aren't i don't hate them for it.

As of right now, no I want to lose mine. But I won't. :/

Lol, I guess it does, .. But why get punished by loosing virginity if your old enough to do so ?

~Altin

Thats a good point. When i lost mine i regretted it, It was mainly because i simply didn't love her.

Lmao, so you just used her?Hehe :P

~Altin