no it wasn't really using her. It was more i was very very drunk and she seemed nice at the time. Little did i know she was a clingy **** who followed me round for weeks on end texting me permanantly

Ahh, drunk, no wonder :P I've been drunk on sugar sticks(candy) once :P And when i went to the mall, the next thing you know was; Get the **** out of my mall !

~Altin

lol im not allowed in my local mall. Aparantly running through the small in just boxers, covered in blue body paint shouting "im a smurf" doesn't equal acceptable behaviour

Lmao! Sucks for you man! I'd get my *** kicked by an Asian if I painted myself in blue . Apparently, Asians here hate the colour blue.

I think it's a better thing that my girlfriend is a virgin, that way i know i was her first official lover. And i hope to be with her for the rest of my life!

It is too much hyped in my opinion. When mens want sex we don't look at girl being virgin or not. but when it comes to marriage we ask thrice or twice are you virgin ?

Well in my country I think we are not that concerned anymore about that. Although in the past it was considered. But I think, that was the past already. I think what is important in a relationship is the feeling of being loved and loved by who you are and nothing else matters. Virginity is not important anymore because it is just symbolical having those in your marriage and it has nothing to say if you really love the person or not. Love is supposed to be the better measure if you love a person or not.

Uh at one stage when I was younger I made a pact to myself that I wouldn't have sex until I was at least 18, which is above the legal age anyway.
Eh things in life change, life is unpredictable and I lost mine. It would have been nice to keep but spose things happen for a reason.

well i will not pick on a girl to marry when it is not me who made her lose her virginity. it doesnt matter to me if she is not virgin anymore on ou wedding. it is me who made her lose it anyway.LOL

Very true.. But i really dont care about if my wife will be virgin or something.. If i not virgin why i would have to prefer a virgin women?? And when the mens think like that.. Means they are closed mind..

yes in a sense,men cannot demand for a virgin woman unless he is a virgin himself. thats just being fair. if man can be a b*tch, why woman can't? as long as both parties love each other that is fine..virginity is not a measure of true love anyway

Not really. It's more of embarrassment than anything. I'd prefer not to be a virgin, but at the same time I'm not worrying too much about it.

I think there are many double standards to this issue. Men want wives to be different but in their fantasies they like the slutty types. This really gets my blood boiling lol Virginity is in the Mind, not just a piece of skin. My isn't there this topic with men being virgins? In the Muslim religion both men and women should be chaste before marriage YET I hardly know any Muslim man in my town that has stayed a virgin before marriage yet the GIRLS have to be. I think this whole thing is out dated. I believe of course in a pure kind, which keeps the body pure also. Sometimes people can fall in love and make mistakes, that is not good or bad. If women should be virgins then so should the men then a family relative should buy them a book on Tantra and the Kamasutra for their wedding night. If it has to apply to one gender then it should apply to men too.

men really do have a slutty fantasy.. we can't help it. we are born to be breeders of mankind..the difference with animals is that we have set of values.just bear with guys for we may have "slips"..LOlz

If virginity matters to someone, he would never take it away from a girl

For us its cared. I live in Philippines , also in Asia. we're a bit conservative here.Although we are not suffering so much shame for no one will ever no....

Yah i agree with you. But boys are really very different.

we are now on a modern age such belief should not exist today in our times