Need advice!

rsa101 · 11-30-2009, 05:34 PM

For me, honesty is the best policy. If you are not happy with the current relationship better dump it as soon as possible than stay unhappy with your situation.

ChrisG2010 · 12-01-2009, 12:44 PM

Thanks everyone for all the help. I have broken up with her and she understood everything I mentioned to her. She cried, but she said she understood everything.

I am now free to talk to whom ever I wish. I am currently seeing a new girl (Kristin). I am going to have some respect and have some time before I announce that I am dating another girl. I know it's a little rude to date another girl right after a relationship. Also, it makes you look like you never cared for the girl.

Me and kristin have been talking and hanging out for the past week and half and it's been great so far! Shes wonderful and makes me laugh and I enjoy every minute with her. The time just flies by! I will continue to keep everyone updated on my situation and once again, thanks everyone for every word that was said!

pure evil · 12-01-2009, 12:48 PM

Just explain to her how you feel. Thats the best way, if she really loves you then she will make the effort to make you love her.

MrPresident · 12-02-2009, 01:34 AM

Be both a scholar and a gentleman. This is all the advice I may give on this topic. It's important to balance a good education with a social life that sets one up for success.

eclipse · 12-02-2009, 05:25 AM

Be diplomatic and have some thing on your side always. Be honest though but being proactive avoid many wrong decisions as well.

kiblespatrol · 12-02-2009, 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by ChrisG2010

ONLY VERY SERIOUS PEOPLE RESPOND, OTHERS CAN GO ON PLEASE!

Hey guys, I have been in a relationship for 4 years now with my current girlfriend. It has been pretty great until lately. She has been acting controlling and like she is going to do whatever she wants to do.

This past weekend she said she was going to spend some time with me but blew me off to go spend the night over at her friends and to go to the movies.

So I kind of just shook it off and went on to work.

Also, when she calls me, we talk about nothing..its always just "Hey..whats up.." "nothing..you?" then basically blank after that. She calls me so many times in a days time and she always goes through my phone to see what I have texted or or has called me and goes through my pictures. I have never gave her a reason to not trust me. Never even cheated on a girl in my whole life. Never will. But, she still does it.

So lately, this other girl started talking to me in class and she came over yesterday and we just kinda hung out and talked about how current GF treats me and stuff.

Also, current GF lives about 25minutes away from me and her parents are literally psycho. They are real mean and I do not like them and have had to put up with them for 4 years now.

I'm starting to not be happy in this relationship and starting to like this other girl that has started to talk to me. I have broken up with my current gf a few times in the past and I know how she reacts to it. It's pretty bad...

But me and current GF has been through everything together. But, I just can't handle it anymore. I mean she will basically force me to hold her hand even when Im busy..like today at the school assembly..she kept nudging me to hold her hand and then I got pissed off and said "You know what?..Leave me alone. Your pissing me off"

Don't get me wrong...I'm a very passionate guy, but only so much I can take..

Please help me out on what I can do to get out of this relationship. I do not wish to hurt her feelings, do not wish to cheat on her to break up, do not want to lie to her.

wow man.you are in deedconfused at the moment. u know what, if you and her are for 4 years now, you and her should have adjusted to each other and both of you should have things like to set the boundaries...no one can really like what your partner's attitude is, it is with each of you to get along those differences.