Uh I used to be so jealous when my boyfriend was around other females and having fun with them, I used to check his phone calls and his messages every signle day and question him over any unsaved number.
We broke up for a while and got back together and in that time I told him I got with four other guys (I was trying to move on), I gave him an opportunity to tell me if he had got with any girls not as if I'd care anyway and he's a really honest and straightforward guy and he told me one of his close friends amanda tried sleeping with him twice but he said no 'cos he still had feelings for me :O

Now I'm barely jealous at all, well not to an extreme extent as before. Though I have to admit I trust him because of the guy he is.

I try not to be jealous but if i am I'd rather keep out of her business and not seem like i don't trust her.

In some relationships jealousy adds spice in life. so yes, to some extent it is useful.

i think that it is one spice in life i think we would be more happier without. cause with jealousy we do a lot of weird things and may end up losing some important person in our lives.

jealousy is good when not excessive. it is good in the sense that he or she cares that he/she will lose you. but when excess jealousy takes place, that will choke both of you, ending up breaking up.

yeah that is true. jealousy specially too much jealousy will tear the relationship apart. but jealousy is just part of human emotion. we can't help but feel it but we shuold not let it have its control over us.

As the jealous love, I feel the need to be treated differently. Because of jealousy arose caused by both parties, both to my question, but also has her problems. If a jealousy in order to better safeguard relationship, then it is good, we will follow each other's views, if not, then it needs to be done to convince work.

It makes relationships worse. It's a non-needed ingredient really.

I think jealousy is quite important otherwise you woldn't really care what other people do with your girlfriend... It is kind of a signal that you have feelings for someone

Jealously in many ways is Bad one for all ones but if you that jealously in right attitude you can get much more benefits from its
Practically if you are jealously of someone who is scoring higher marks than you,you would put that much more efforts to get to the Top
The main problem is that many of us takes jealously in Bad approach because of which many bad thinks take place....

what if your girlfriend looks like flirting with other guy..will you not feel jealous? actually for me jealousy is related to pride...if you saw that your girl is somewhat happier than somebody else than you, your ego will be hit, because you will come to think that guy can be a better man for your girl than you...

Going a little green is like a dose of Thera Flu Vaccine it can be beneficial, but when you get a fully grown green monster then that spells trouble.

Jeolousy is important it is both good and bad I think it is good for example when a girl is jealous if her guy is cheating on her.

It is very important because when there is no jealousy one might think that love has gone out of the window. but too much of it spoil the cook.

Love always has jealousy in it, possesive ness is one thing but being jealous i think is not good for a healthy relationship

Jealousy is pure trust. My GF lives with her X and she lied about it for the first 3 months of the relationship, I trusted her with that guy until I realised she lied. The lieing was to save the hassle, but still, trust gone, jealousy arises.

jealousy in a slight sense is showing your love one that you still care whatever he or she is doing.But jealousy that is too much and abusive can never be at all a sign of love but mis trust to someone you love

Hey Kom, I agree with you, more important is faith. But these features are the salt and flavors for the life. For example the solid nutrients for body are Milk,Rice,Wheat etc (they are equal to Faith in love) but to prepare delicious food the salt and flavors are necessary (where Jealousy, fight, etc are the flavors are necessary for spicy love)
NOTICE:- Though they are necessary their concentration must be controlled.

If you have faith in him/her there is no reason to be jealous.loving is being faithful for if there's no faith how can you trust and love someone?